A couple years ago, a young man made a decision to remove himself from a team because he felt he could no longer wear the uniform with pride.
He was uncomfortable with how the team was being coached and how humiliation was one of the primary ‘motivators.’ Recently, he was told that although he had adequate talent to play at a higher level, his previous decision of leaving that other team would cost him a spot on the team he was trying out for.
There are other backroom politics at work here, but the lesson shows us that when we stand up for what we think is right, or take a stand for how people should be treated, it doesn’t always ensure a happy Hollywood ending. The young man stands by his original decision. After the disappointment of watching others, who he has played with for years, make the team, he shook his head, declaring that nothing about the situation years ago had really changed. He didn’t succomb to the coach’s public announcement. He didn’t cower. In fact, he rested up, and tried out for another team later that same day.
When faced with difficult circumstances and choices in life, we have to be willing to stand up for what we believe is right. Sometimes we will stand alone. The important thing is to stand. When we have done all that we can, we stand. Is there something you have been waiting to take a stand on? Someone who needs you to defend them? There is no better time, than now.
ABOUT LINDA LORD As a Human Agriculturalist and Storytiller: Linda produces presentations that grow people. She fertilizes the performance ground with H.O.P.E. (honesty, optimism, perspective, and experience) and plants seeds of L.I.F.E. (laughter, information, focus, and encouragement) that cultivate the individual’s ability to C.O.P.E. (clarify, organize, plan, and engage). Linda integrates meaningful content with her experience as a workshop leader, business person, and performer. Her delivery is dynamic, interactive, and entertaining. Participants reflect on character, circumstances and choices to enhance their soft skills. Linda can be contacted on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter, www.lindajlord.com or by phone 1.519.257.7363.
Randy Cooray has been on both sides of the media spectrum working in the Public Relations field after five years in Journalism. From one-on-one interviews with professional athletes, to collaborating on breaking news stories. Randy is now a part of the corporate communications industry.